This week I came across a Love-Friendship Story. Why Love-Friendship story because its Love from one side and Friendship from another. It takes no brain to guess that friendship is from girls side and Love from boy. The Couple involved in this case both belong to my part of country that’s eastern UP.
There story goes like this. They were classmates in their graduation, but first noticed each other only in second year during a volunteer camp. They became friends good friends but unfortunately boy developed deep feelings for her. So he did what any fool in love would do he proposed her. Girls response was “are you sure?” and after a long conversation she explained her that she is not in love with him and doesn’t want to be and consider him as a friend. She failed in her attempt as the boys didn’t budge. It’s been four years now from that day and the status still continues to remain same.
In the meanwhile both of them left college and you may call it fate or anything both of them found themselves in New Delhi. In a strange city with no other friends, where ever they have to go they went together whether its for shopping or movie. This continued for a year and there common friends again stirred the fire and peeped up the boy to ask her what is the status because you can’t be just friends if you are always hanging out together.
And the poor guy asker her again and got the same answer. It seemed at last that sense prevailed in boy and he had accepted her feelings in his own words “agar use char saal main mughse pyaar nahi hua to aage bhi nahi hoga aur main uski dosti se khush hoon.”
However, came this week of Aug 2010 the birthday of Girl and he came down all the way from Lucknow to surprise her. Now who does it for a friend? And the point is even after five years the boy hasn’t learnt anything.
Even how much sad his story might be the thing I want him to learn is simply explained by next mythological story.
The question I want to ask is why wasn’t Ravaan able to pick the Bow and Ram did? Before you rush to any answer let me first explain you the question why I am comparing only Raavan and not other thousands of god, demigod, men and demon who tried their luck at that Swaymwar. Because Raavan was the person who picked up the Mount Kailash along with Lord Shiva and Maa Parvati. So the Raavan who can pick the Lord Shiva Himself not to mention along with a mountain why wasn’t he able to pick his Bow?
The answer is simple than question he doesn’t had the consent of Sita in his favour. That’s why he failed.
My point is simple Respect Thy Lady and her opinion and you’ll prosper otherwise you are doomed.
